Thursday, November 20, 2008

The Lives We Lead

It is often said that you know you are getting old when you read the obituaries just to make sure you aren’t dead yet. However, I find the obituaries in small town newspapers to be fascinating narratives about the interesting people that have lived, sometime their whole lives, in our towns. I especially love how our local paper sums up a person’s life right below their name. Here are the ones from a recent weekly obit column:

~ Raised short-horn cattle after retirement ~
~ Avid reader, enjoyed taking long walks ~
~ Talented cook, loved spending time with grandkids ~
~ Loved to travel, worked with local Girl Scouts ~
~ Was technical writer, enjoyed gardening ~

Some may find it a little sad to have a life summed up in a few words like this, or think that it is shows a lack of the formal “accomplishments” typically outlined in an obit in the New York Times, but I find myself charmed by the lives they’ve led. I don’t know what the one-line summary of my life will be, but one could do a whole lot worse than “Talented cook, loved spending time with grandkids”.

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